"It is my goal to learn as much about the people I'm surrounded by. I am slowly widening who I am close with, and at the same time, growing further away from others"
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There’s a quiet ruthlessness hiding in this very polite sentence. Schwartz frames social change as self-improvement - “learn as much about the people I’m surrounded by” - but the real engine is curation. The wording turns relationships into an environment: people as the room you’re in, not necessarily the commitments you’ve made. For a producer, that’s telling. Producing is less about personal expression than about managing proximity: assembling teams, reading rooms, extracting what’s useful, keeping the machine moving. The quote borrows that same professional logic for private life.
The subtext is that closeness isn’t a fixed moral category; it’s a shifting portfolio. “Slowly widening” suggests caution, even diplomacy, as if Schwartz knows the social cost of switching lanes. He’s not declaring a dramatic reinvention. He’s narrating a controlled evolution, the kind that doesn’t spook the people who still have access to you. Then comes the sharper turn: “growing further away from others.” That passive construction dodges blame. No one is being cut off; distance is simply happening, like weather.
Contextually, it reads like someone navigating adulthood in a volatile, status-dense industry where networks are both lifelines and liabilities. The intent isn’t confession so much as normalization: outgrowing circles isn’t betrayal, it’s maintenance. And because he pairs expansion with loss, the line admits a truth we don’t like to post: every new intimacy quietly rearranges the map, and some friendships don’t survive the rezoning.
The subtext is that closeness isn’t a fixed moral category; it’s a shifting portfolio. “Slowly widening” suggests caution, even diplomacy, as if Schwartz knows the social cost of switching lanes. He’s not declaring a dramatic reinvention. He’s narrating a controlled evolution, the kind that doesn’t spook the people who still have access to you. Then comes the sharper turn: “growing further away from others.” That passive construction dodges blame. No one is being cut off; distance is simply happening, like weather.
Contextually, it reads like someone navigating adulthood in a volatile, status-dense industry where networks are both lifelines and liabilities. The intent isn’t confession so much as normalization: outgrowing circles isn’t betrayal, it’s maintenance. And because he pairs expansion with loss, the line admits a truth we don’t like to post: every new intimacy quietly rearranges the map, and some friendships don’t survive the rezoning.
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| Topic | Friendship |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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