"It is my goal to learn as much about the people I'm surrounded by. I am slowly widening who I am close with, and at the same time, growing further away from others"
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The subtext is that closeness isn’t a fixed moral category; it’s a shifting portfolio. “Slowly widening” suggests caution, even diplomacy, as if Schwartz knows the social cost of switching lanes. He’s not declaring a dramatic reinvention. He’s narrating a controlled evolution, the kind that doesn’t spook the people who still have access to you. Then comes the sharper turn: “growing further away from others.” That passive construction dodges blame. No one is being cut off; distance is simply happening, like weather.
Contextually, it reads like someone navigating adulthood in a volatile, status-dense industry where networks are both lifelines and liabilities. The intent isn’t confession so much as normalization: outgrowing circles isn’t betrayal, it’s maintenance. And because he pairs expansion with loss, the line admits a truth we don’t like to post: every new intimacy quietly rearranges the map, and some friendships don’t survive the rezoning.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Schwartz, Josh. (2026, January 14). It is my goal to learn as much about the people I'm surrounded by. I am slowly widening who I am close with, and at the same time, growing further away from others. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-my-goal-to-learn-as-much-about-the-people-146779/
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Schwartz, Josh. "It is my goal to learn as much about the people I'm surrounded by. I am slowly widening who I am close with, and at the same time, growing further away from others." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-my-goal-to-learn-as-much-about-the-people-146779/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It is my goal to learn as much about the people I'm surrounded by. I am slowly widening who I am close with, and at the same time, growing further away from others." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-my-goal-to-learn-as-much-about-the-people-146779/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






