"It is necessary to help others, not only in our prayers, but in our daily lives. If we find we cannot help others, the least we can do is to desist from harming them"
About this Quote
The subtext carries the Dalai Lama’s characteristic blend of spiritual authority and pragmatic governance. As a leader shaped by exile and geopolitical pressure, he knows that harm isn’t always dramatic cruelty; it’s everyday negligence scaled up - the snide dismissal, the exploitative transaction, the policy that treats people as collateral. By naming “desist” as the minimum, he reframes morality as restraint before generosity, nonviolence before virtue-signaling. That’s philosophically Buddhist (ahimsa, compassion as practice) and rhetorically strategic: it welcomes the exhausted and the imperfect without lowering the moral bar so far it disappears.
There’s also a quiet indictment of modern moral theater. If your compassion lives mainly in private language - prayers, posts, pledges - it risks becoming performance. The line forces a shift from self-image to impact, from “am I a good person?” to “am I making someone’s day harder?” That’s where the quote bites.
Quote Details
| Topic | Kindness |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lama, Dalai. (2026, January 17). It is necessary to help others, not only in our prayers, but in our daily lives. If we find we cannot help others, the least we can do is to desist from harming them. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-necessary-to-help-others-not-only-in-our-24778/
Chicago Style
Lama, Dalai. "It is necessary to help others, not only in our prayers, but in our daily lives. If we find we cannot help others, the least we can do is to desist from harming them." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-necessary-to-help-others-not-only-in-our-24778/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It is necessary to help others, not only in our prayers, but in our daily lives. If we find we cannot help others, the least we can do is to desist from harming them." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-necessary-to-help-others-not-only-in-our-24778/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








