"It is not death, but dying, which is terrible"
About this Quote
The intent is less philosophical than practical, almost clinical. Fielding isn’t offering a grand metaphysical claim about the afterlife; he’s diagnosing where fear actually lives. “Dying” contains suspense, pain, waiting, the awkward social theater around a sickbed, the loss of agency, the humiliations of the body. “Death” is abstract; “dying” is narrative, and narrative is where dread breeds - scene by scene.
Subtextually, the quote pushes back against moralistic consolations that treat death as a tidy lesson. Eighteenth-century Britain was no stranger to early mortality, epidemics, and medical limits; to say the terrible thing is dying is to name what polite conversation preferred to euphemize. It also reads as an implicit critique of stoic posturing: bravery is easy to applaud in the idea of death, harder in the drawn-out reality of decline.
What makes it work is its plain architecture: not X, but Y. The pivot isn’t decorative; it’s a spotlight. Fielding compresses an entire argument about fear, bodily vulnerability, and social pretense into a single grammatical turn.
Quote Details
| Topic | Mortality |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Fielding, Henry. (2026, January 15). It is not death, but dying, which is terrible. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-not-death-but-dying-which-is-terrible-148426/
Chicago Style
Fielding, Henry. "It is not death, but dying, which is terrible." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-not-death-but-dying-which-is-terrible-148426/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It is not death, but dying, which is terrible." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-not-death-but-dying-which-is-terrible-148426/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.









