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Daily Inspiration Quote by Eleanor Roosevelt

"It is not fair to ask of others what you are not willing to do yourself"

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Fairness, in Eleanor Roosevelt's hands, is less a haloed virtue than a managerial tool for democracy. "It is not fair to ask of others what you are not willing to do yourself" sounds like simple decency, but its real bite is disciplinary: it drags the lofty into the arena of the lived. The sentence doesn't flatter the speaker as a moral judge; it drafts the speaker into the same draft they are proposing for everyone else.

The intent is accountability, especially for people who sit closest to power. Roosevelt spent her public life translating abstract ideals into practical obligations, from her advocacy for civil rights to her role in shaping the Universal Declaration of Human Rights. As First Lady, she operated inside a system that often expected symbolic grace rather than ethical friction. This line quietly rejects that arrangement. It refuses the convenient division between those who make demands and those who absorb them.

The subtext is about legitimacy. Requests become coercion when the requester is insulated from the cost. "Not willing" is the key phrase: it's not about capability, but consent and courage. The quote exposes hypocrisy as a kind of moral tax evasion, and it links fairness to shared risk. In political life, that translates into a standard for leaders, employers, activists, parents: if you're asking for sacrifice, you'd better be ready to pay in the same currency.

It's also a rebuke to performative righteousness. Roosevelt isn't offering a platitude about empathy; she's setting a baseline for moral authority in public life: you don't get to outsource the hard part.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Roosevelt, Eleanor. (2026, January 15). It is not fair to ask of others what you are not willing to do yourself. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-not-fair-to-ask-of-others-what-you-are-not-19280/

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Roosevelt, Eleanor. "It is not fair to ask of others what you are not willing to do yourself." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-not-fair-to-ask-of-others-what-you-are-not-19280/.

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"It is not fair to ask of others what you are not willing to do yourself." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-not-fair-to-ask-of-others-what-you-are-not-19280/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Eleanor Roosevelt (October 11, 1884 - November 7, 1962) was a First Lady from USA.

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