"It is not good to cross the bridge before you get to it"
About this Quote
The phrasing matters. “Not good” is deliberately modest, almost domestic, like something said over tea rather than carved into a self-help plaque. That understatement is the subtext: anxiety doesn’t need more drama, it needs less oxygen. The sentence also keeps agency in the listener’s hands. It’s not “you can’t” or “you shouldn’t,” it’s a quiet recalibration of timing: wait until the bridge is real, then deal with it.
Culturally, it pushes back against an era that monetizes anticipation - news cycles that thrive on worst-case scenarios, productivity culture that treats constant pre-planning as virtue, online life that rewards instant reaction. Dench’s intent isn’t to romanticize passivity; it’s to defend presence. The bridge will still require crossing. The point is to stop paying the toll twice: once in dread, once in reality.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Dench, Judi. (2026, January 15). It is not good to cross the bridge before you get to it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-not-good-to-cross-the-bridge-before-you-get-19363/
Chicago Style
Dench, Judi. "It is not good to cross the bridge before you get to it." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-not-good-to-cross-the-bridge-before-you-get-19363/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It is not good to cross the bridge before you get to it." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-not-good-to-cross-the-bridge-before-you-get-19363/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.









