"It is not love that should be depicted as blind, but self-love"
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Voltaire’s jab lands because it flips a familiar proverb into an accusation. “Love is blind” is usually a romantic excuse: we can’t help what we overlook. Voltaire drags that sentimental alibi into daylight and points the finger at the real culprit: self-love, the mind’s most talented propagandist. The intent isn’t to shame affection; it’s to expose how often “love” is merely vanity wearing a nicer outfit.
The subtext is pure Enlightenment skepticism. In Voltaire’s world, human beings don’t mainly suffer from too much passion; they suffer from motivated perception. Self-love doesn’t just tilt the scales, it rigs the courtroom: it turns our desires into “reasons,” our pride into “principles,” our convenience into “morality.” Calling self-love “blind” is also a surgical insult, because blindness here isn’t innocence. It’s refusal. We don’t fail to see; we choose not to, because clarity threatens the flattering story we tell about ourselves.
Context matters: Voltaire wrote against the grain of inherited authority - church dogma, aristocratic privilege, public piety masking private vice. The line quietly suggests that hypocrisy isn’t an occasional character flaw; it’s a system, powered by ego. By sparing romantic love and indicting self-love, he’s also protecting what he sees as the better angels of sociability: empathy, friendship, and honest attachment. What deserves ridicule is not attachment to others, but the narcissistic fog that makes us mistake our reflection for truth.
The subtext is pure Enlightenment skepticism. In Voltaire’s world, human beings don’t mainly suffer from too much passion; they suffer from motivated perception. Self-love doesn’t just tilt the scales, it rigs the courtroom: it turns our desires into “reasons,” our pride into “principles,” our convenience into “morality.” Calling self-love “blind” is also a surgical insult, because blindness here isn’t innocence. It’s refusal. We don’t fail to see; we choose not to, because clarity threatens the flattering story we tell about ourselves.
Context matters: Voltaire wrote against the grain of inherited authority - church dogma, aristocratic privilege, public piety masking private vice. The line quietly suggests that hypocrisy isn’t an occasional character flaw; it’s a system, powered by ego. By sparing romantic love and indicting self-love, he’s also protecting what he sees as the better angels of sociability: empathy, friendship, and honest attachment. What deserves ridicule is not attachment to others, but the narcissistic fog that makes us mistake our reflection for truth.
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| Topic | Self-Love |
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