"It is not well for a man to pray cream and live skim milk"
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The intent isn’t to mock prayer so much as to strip it of magical thinking. Beecher, a 19th-century clergyman with a reformer’s streak, preached in a culture where Protestant piety could slide into performance: public virtue, private caution, lots of asking, little risking. His jab targets the habit of treating faith as a loophole around effort - or around generosity. Pray for a better world, then clutch your wallet. Pray for character, then avoid discomfort. Pray for intimacy with God, then live on spiritual rations.
Subtextually, he’s arguing that desire carries an implied obligation. If you want “cream,” you’re admitting you value fullness; that should push you toward the practices that create it: work, courage, sacrifice, consistency. Beecher’s genius is that he doesn’t moralize with abstract theology. He uses the breakfast table. The line suggests that the real blasphemy isn’t asking for too much; it’s asking without intending to live as if the answer matters.
Quote Details
| Topic | Honesty & Integrity |
|---|---|
| Source | Verified source: Life Thoughts (Henry Ward Beecher, 1858)
Evidence: It is not well for a man to pray, cream ; and live, skim milk. (Page 64). Verified in the 1858 volume *Life thoughts, gathered from the extemporaneous discourses of Henry Ward Beecher* ("By one of his congregation"), published in Boston by Phillips, Sampson and Company. In the scan, the quote appears on printed page 64 (PDF page 90 in the Wikimedia/Internet Archive scan). This is a primary publication of Beecher’s spoken material as recorded from his sermons/lectures, not a later quote compilation; however, the wording is preserved via a congregant’s contemporaneous notes rather than Beecher’s own manuscript. Other candidates (1) Best Thoughts of Henry Ward Beecher (Henry Ward Beecher, Lyman Abbott, 1893)95.0% ... It is not well for a man to pray , cream ; and live , skim milk . SOME men say , to retire to a little blissful n... |
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"It is not well for a man to pray cream and live skim milk." FixQuotes, 9 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-not-well-for-a-man-to-pray-cream-and-live-42210/. Accessed 4 Mar. 2026.







