"It is not what we take up, but what we give up, that makes us rich"
About this Quote
As a 19th-century American clergyman, Beecher is speaking into a culture of explosive growth, industrial expansion, and a rising middle class hungry for proof that prosperity equals virtue. His intent is corrective, almost pastoral: he’s offering spiritual cover for restraint while also warning that the appetite to acquire can hollow you out. The subtext is Protestant and pragmatic at once: self-denial isn’t mere piety; it’s a path to freedom. If you can give up what you want, you’re no longer owned by it.
The rhetorical trick is that Beecher doesn’t condemn wealth outright. He keeps the word “rich” and simply changes its unit of measurement. That’s why the sentence has endured in self-help and minimalist circles: it flatters readers into imagining their constraints as chosen, their simplicity as a kind of power. It’s also a quiet rebuke to the Gilded Age mindset gathering on his horizon: prosperity without relinquishment is just well-furnished dependence.
Quote Details
| Topic | Wisdom |
|---|---|
| Source | Verified source: Life Thoughts: Gathered from the Extemporaneous Discourses (Henry Ward Beecher, 1858)
Evidence: In this world, it is not what we take up, but what we give up, that makes us rich. (Page 19). This wording appears in the 1858 Boston volume "Life Thoughts, gathered from the extemporaneous discourses of Henry Ward Beecher" (preface signed by Edna Dean Proctor). In the scanned PDF, the quote is on the page labeled 19 in the book text (PDF scan page 44). This is a contemporaneous printed source derived from Beecher's spoken sermons/lectures (i.e., an editor’s notes of his extemporaneous discourses), not a later quote compilation website. I did not locate an earlier (pre-1858) printed appearance during this search session, so 1858 is the earliest verifiable publication I can confirm from a primary-period source. Other candidates (1) Life and Work of Henry Ward Beecher (Thomas Wallace Knox, 1887) compilation95.0% ... it is not what we take up , but what we give up , that makes us rich . The most dangerous infidelity of the day i... |
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"It is not what we take up, but what we give up, that makes us rich." FixQuotes, 11 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-not-what-we-take-up-but-what-we-give-up-37063/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.











