"It is our choices... that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities"
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The intent is corrective. “Abilities” are seductive because they feel like identity you can wear without effort. They’re also easy to commodify: grades, trophies, innate brilliance, magical aptitude. Choices, by contrast, are messy, social, and time-bound. They implicate you. Rowling’s phrasing turns character into a verb. “Show” suggests revelation, not self-description; you don’t get to declare who you are, you get exposed by your decisions.
The subtext is sharper than the inspirational poster version. Choices aren’t just big, heroic moments. They’re the small alignments: who you side with, what you tolerate, how you treat the powerless when you could get away with cruelty. The line also punctures the comfortable myth that talent excuses harm. Being exceptional doesn’t make you good; it just makes your impact larger.
In context, coming from an author writing about adolescence, it’s also a challenge to the anxious teen belief that worth is preloaded. Rowling offers a form of agency that isn’t wish fulfillment. You might not control your gifts, your status, or your origin story. You do control your next move. And that, she insists, is the only identity that counts.
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| Topic | Free Will & Fate |
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Rowling, J. K. (2026, January 17). It is our choices... that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-our-choices-that-show-what-we-truly-are-far-31656/
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Rowling, J. K. "It is our choices... that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-our-choices-that-show-what-we-truly-are-far-31656/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It is our choices... that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-our-choices-that-show-what-we-truly-are-far-31656/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










