"It is our less conscious thoughts and our less conscious actions which mainly mould our lives and the lives of those who spring from us"
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Butler is smuggling a quiet provocation into a sentence that looks almost Victorian in its manners: your life is not authored by your declared beliefs, but by the unnoticed scripts running underneath them. The repetition of "less conscious" is the tell. He is not praising instinct as some romantic wisdom; he is indicting the everyday autopilot - the habits, reflexes, and small permissions that accumulate into character. The line has the cool fatalism of someone who watched respectable people preach morality while reproducing the same household cruelties, class prejudices, and emotional evasions.
As a poet and contrarian Victorian intellectual, Butler wrote in the long shadow of Darwin and against the pieties of his time. His work (especially The Way of All Flesh) is obsessed with inheritance: not just property and genes, but the transmission of temperament, shame, and unexamined family logic. "Those who spring from us" lands with almost botanical chill, reducing lineage to a natural process while insisting we are still responsible for what we pass on. The subtext is generational: your children will live inside the moods you normalize and the fears you never name.
What makes the sentence work is its inversion of moral accounting. We like to imagine our legacy is built from the big choices and the principled speeches. Butler argues it is built from the micro-behaviors you barely register - how you handle anger, what you laugh at, what you avoid, what you reward. In a culture newly alert to the unconscious (Freud is around the corner), Butler is already warning: the self you curate is not the self that governs.
As a poet and contrarian Victorian intellectual, Butler wrote in the long shadow of Darwin and against the pieties of his time. His work (especially The Way of All Flesh) is obsessed with inheritance: not just property and genes, but the transmission of temperament, shame, and unexamined family logic. "Those who spring from us" lands with almost botanical chill, reducing lineage to a natural process while insisting we are still responsible for what we pass on. The subtext is generational: your children will live inside the moods you normalize and the fears you never name.
What makes the sentence work is its inversion of moral accounting. We like to imagine our legacy is built from the big choices and the principled speeches. Butler argues it is built from the micro-behaviors you barely register - how you handle anger, what you laugh at, what you avoid, what you reward. In a culture newly alert to the unconscious (Freud is around the corner), Butler is already warning: the self you curate is not the self that governs.
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| Topic | Wisdom |
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