"It is our responsibilities, not ourselves, that we should take seriously"
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Ustinov’s line lands with the quiet audacity of someone who spent a lifetime watching egos inflate under hot lights. “It is our responsibilities, not ourselves” flips the usual self-help script: stop treating your personality like a precious artifact and start treating your obligations like the real point of the exercise. Coming from an actor - a profession built on being looked at - it reads as a deliberately anti-vanity credo, almost a backstage aside aimed at anyone tempted to confuse attention with importance.
The phrasing matters. “Take seriously” isn’t “take proudly” or “take joyfully.” It suggests gravity without self-dramatization: be accountable, but don’t make a spectacle of your own conscience. The subtext is a warning against the moral theater of being “a good person.” Ustinov implies that self-absorption can wear ethical clothing: we obsess over who we are, how we’re perceived, whether we’re “authentic,” and call it introspection. He’s calling that bluff. Responsibilities are measurable; selves are endlessly narratable.
There’s also an actor’s pragmatism in the construction. On stage, the self is mutable; the job is fixed. You can’t act Hamlet by insisting on your uniqueness. You serve the role, the ensemble, the audience, the night’s work. In a culture that rewards personal branding, Ustinov offers a bracing demotion: your feelings and self-image are secondary. What you owe others is the part that deserves the spotlight.
The phrasing matters. “Take seriously” isn’t “take proudly” or “take joyfully.” It suggests gravity without self-dramatization: be accountable, but don’t make a spectacle of your own conscience. The subtext is a warning against the moral theater of being “a good person.” Ustinov implies that self-absorption can wear ethical clothing: we obsess over who we are, how we’re perceived, whether we’re “authentic,” and call it introspection. He’s calling that bluff. Responsibilities are measurable; selves are endlessly narratable.
There’s also an actor’s pragmatism in the construction. On stage, the self is mutable; the job is fixed. You can’t act Hamlet by insisting on your uniqueness. You serve the role, the ensemble, the audience, the night’s work. In a culture that rewards personal branding, Ustinov offers a bracing demotion: your feelings and self-image are secondary. What you owe others is the part that deserves the spotlight.
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| Topic | Ethics & Morality |
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| Source | Later attribution: Peter Ustinov (Peter Ustinov) modern compilation
Evidence: t a catholic it is our responsibilities not ourselves that we should take seriously to Other candidates (1) A Strategic Approach to Economic Development-ebook Version (David R. Kölzow, 2010) compilation95.0% ... It is our responsibilities , not ourselves , that we should take seriously . " —Peter Ustinov ...................... |
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