"It is, perhaps, better to be valued as an object of passion than never to be valued at all"
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The intent isn’t to endorse the bargain so much as to expose the desperation that makes it tempting. Carter understood that in a world calibrated to reward women for attractiveness and availability, being wanted can read as proof of existence. The subtext is bleak: even “passion” can be a kind of appraisal, a market price pinned to a body. That “never to be valued at all” is the real horror here, pointing to social invisibility as punishment for refusing the role.
Context matters: Carter’s fiction (The Bloody Chamber, Nights at the Circus) rewires fairy tales and pornographic tropes to show how desire can be both weapon and energy source. She’s not anti-sex; she’s anti-mystification. The sentence works because it stages the trap in real time, letting readers feel the seduction of being wanted and the humiliation of being reduced, then leaving “perhaps” like a splinter: are you agreeing, or noticing how you were trained to?
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| Topic | Love |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Carter, Angela. (2026, January 18). It is, perhaps, better to be valued as an object of passion than never to be valued at all. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-perhaps-better-to-be-valued-as-an-object-of-3233/
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Carter, Angela. "It is, perhaps, better to be valued as an object of passion than never to be valued at all." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-perhaps-better-to-be-valued-as-an-object-of-3233/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It is, perhaps, better to be valued as an object of passion than never to be valued at all." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-perhaps-better-to-be-valued-as-an-object-of-3233/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.











