"It is quite lovely being single, and I much prefer it"
About this Quote
Held was a stage celebrity in a culture that sold female glamour while policing female autonomy. Her public persona was always being negotiated: desired, scrutinized, rumored about, packaged. Saying she prefers being single flips the script. Instead of pleading for respectability, she treats independence as the natural, even luxurious, option. That choice punctures the sentimental story that a woman’s fulfillment requires attachment. It’s not defiant in tone; it’s defiant in premise.
There’s also a savvy showbiz subtext. A star’s “single” status was currency: it kept the audience’s fantasy intact and protected a brand built on flirtation and availability. Held’s line can be read as honest preference and as carefully managed mythmaking. Either way, it asserts control over the narrative. The most modern part is how it reframes solitude as taste, not failure. She’s not asking permission. She’s setting the mood and letting society scramble to catch up.
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| Topic | Contentment |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Held, Anna. (2026, January 16). It is quite lovely being single, and I much prefer it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-quite-lovely-being-single-and-i-much-prefer-114350/
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Held, Anna. "It is quite lovely being single, and I much prefer it." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-quite-lovely-being-single-and-i-much-prefer-114350/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It is quite lovely being single, and I much prefer it." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-quite-lovely-being-single-and-i-much-prefer-114350/. Accessed 17 Feb. 2026.




