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Daily Inspiration Quote by Alexandre Dumas

"It is rare that one can see in a little boy the promise of a man, but one can almost always see in a little girl the threat of a woman"

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A neat little dagger of 19th-century wit: Dumas flips the usual sentimental trope of childhood innocence into a gendered warning label. The line works because it sounds like an observation about human nature while smuggling in a social diagnosis - and a social anxiety. Boys, he suggests, are permitted to be unfinished. Their future is “promise,” a horizon of becoming that society finds appealing, even noble. Girls, by contrast, arrive already overdetermined. You don’t see their “promise” because the culture has prewritten their plot: the “woman” as disruption, competition, appetite, consequence.

“Threat” is the operative word. It implies power, not weakness. The subtext isn’t simply misogyny (though it’s hard to miss the bias); it’s the fear of female agency in a world built to manage it. A “little girl” is read not as a child but as a future adult whose sexuality, autonomy, and social leverage will disturb male comfort and male control. The joke’s cruelty lies in how it compresses an entire system of surveillance - of girls’ bodies, reputations, and “proper” behavior - into a single, quotable antithesis.

Context matters: Dumas wrote amid post-Revolutionary France’s bourgeois moral order, where women’s roles were loudly idealized and tightly policed. As a dramatist, he knew how to land a line that audiences would recognize as “true” because it echoed their assumptions. That recognition is the trick: the epigram flatters the listener’s sophistication while reinforcing the era’s most ordinary prejudice - that a woman’s emergence is less a life unfolding than a problem arriving.

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Dumas, Alexandre. (2026, January 16). It is rare that one can see in a little boy the promise of a man, but one can almost always see in a little girl the threat of a woman. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-rare-that-one-can-see-in-a-little-boy-the-97184/

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Dumas, Alexandre. "It is rare that one can see in a little boy the promise of a man, but one can almost always see in a little girl the threat of a woman." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-rare-that-one-can-see-in-a-little-boy-the-97184/.

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"It is rare that one can see in a little boy the promise of a man, but one can almost always see in a little girl the threat of a woman." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-rare-that-one-can-see-in-a-little-boy-the-97184/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Alexandre Dumas

Alexandre Dumas (July 24, 1802 - December 5, 1870) was a Dramatist from France.

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