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"It is sad to see a woman sacrificing the ties of the affections even to do good"

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Mitchell’s line lands with the quiet sting of someone who watched “doing good” get used as both badge and muzzle. She’s not condemning ambition or public service; she’s naming the cost exacted from women when virtue becomes a job description. “Sacrificing the ties of the affections” points to the emotional labor women were expected to supply on demand: family cohesion, caregiving, social smoothing. The twist is “even to do good.” In a culture that offered women moral authority largely through benevolence, philanthropy and reform could look like sanctioned freedom. Mitchell warns that the permission is conditional: you can step into the world, but you’ll be judged by what you abandon to get there, and the world will sentimentalize that abandonment as noble.

As a scientist in the 19th century, Mitchell lived the friction between private expectations and public intellect. She built a career in a domain that didn’t quite have a place for women, and she did it without pretending the trade-offs were romantic. The sentence is calibrated like a telescope: it brings into focus the way women’s achievements were framed as deviations from “natural” attachment, while men’s were framed as destiny. There’s also a gentler, more radical implication: reform that demands emotional self-erasure is suspect. If “good” requires a woman to sever her affections, perhaps the definition of “good” has been designed by people who don’t have to pay that price.

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Mitchell, Maria. (2026, January 16). It is sad to see a woman sacrificing the ties of the affections even to do good. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-sad-to-see-a-woman-sacrificing-the-ties-of-119975/

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Mitchell, Maria. "It is sad to see a woman sacrificing the ties of the affections even to do good." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-sad-to-see-a-woman-sacrificing-the-ties-of-119975/.

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"It is sad to see a woman sacrificing the ties of the affections even to do good." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-sad-to-see-a-woman-sacrificing-the-ties-of-119975/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.

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Maria Mitchell (August 1, 1818 - June 28, 1889) was a Scientist from USA.

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