"It is the chiefest point of happiness that a man is willing to be what he is"
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The subtext is classic Erasmus: humanist realism tempered by moral psychology. “Be what he is” sounds like acceptance, but it’s also a rebuke to the era’s twin temptations - status-hunger and performative piety. If you’re always auditioning for a higher rank, or polishing a sanctified version of yourself for public approval, you’re never present enough to be happy. Erasmus had little patience for the theatrical self: the cleric playing holiness, the courtier playing importance, the scholar playing superiority. Contentment becomes an ethical stance, not a mood.
Still, he doesn’t offer “self-love” in the modern, branding-heavy sense. He’s after congruence: living without the constant friction of wishing to be someone else. The phrasing makes happiness feel almost administrative - a “point” on which a life turns. That’s the trick: he smuggles a spiritual challenge into an aphorism that sounds like common sense, then lets it indict the reader’s restlessness.
Quote Details
| Topic | Happiness |
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| Source | Verified source: The Praise of Folly (Desiderius Erasmus, 1511)
Evidence: since it is the chief point of happiness "that a man is willing to be what he is," (Commonly found in the section on Self-love; exact page varies by edition). The quote is from Erasmus's own work Moriae Encomium (The Praise of Folly), first published in 1511. The wording often circulating online as "chiefest point" appears to be from later English translation tradition; the primary-source work is Erasmus's satirical declamation The Praise of Folly. A widely available older English translation reads: "Lastly, since it is the chief point of happiness 'that a man is willing to be what he is,'" in the passage on Self-love. Search evidence from Erasmus text reproductions and bibliographic records supports The Praise of Folly as the original source, not a later speech or interview. Exact page number depends on edition/translation; in the open web transcription consulted, the line appears in the Self-love section rather than with stable pagination. Other candidates (1) Civilization's Quotations (Richard Alan Krieger, 2002) compilation95.0% ... It is the chiefest point of happiness that a man is willing to be what he is . ” Desiderius Erasmus “ To be happy... |
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