"It is the chiefest point of happiness that a man is willing to be what he is"
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The subtext is classic Erasmus: humanist realism tempered by moral psychology. “Be what he is” sounds like acceptance, but it’s also a rebuke to the era’s twin temptations - status-hunger and performative piety. If you’re always auditioning for a higher rank, or polishing a sanctified version of yourself for public approval, you’re never present enough to be happy. Erasmus had little patience for the theatrical self: the cleric playing holiness, the courtier playing importance, the scholar playing superiority. Contentment becomes an ethical stance, not a mood.
Still, he doesn’t offer “self-love” in the modern, branding-heavy sense. He’s after congruence: living without the constant friction of wishing to be someone else. The phrasing makes happiness feel almost administrative - a “point” on which a life turns. That’s the trick: he smuggles a spiritual challenge into an aphorism that sounds like common sense, then lets it indict the reader’s restlessness.
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| Topic | Happiness |
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