"It is the dissimilarities and inequalities among men which give rise to the notion of honor; as such differences become less, it grows feeble; and when they disappear, it will vanish too"
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The intent is diagnostic, not celebratory. Tocqueville is tracking what happens when aristocratic societies give way to democratic ones. In aristocracies, honor disciplines the elite and scripts the behavior of each class; you defend your name because your name is a kind of property, inherited and policed by peers. As equality advances, those tight class scripts loosen. If everyone is more interchangeable, the stakes of “dishonor” shrink; reputation becomes personal rather than caste-bound, and moral authority migrates from status codes to laws, contracts, and individual conscience.
There’s an edge of ambivalence, too. Tocqueville isn’t simply cheering honor’s disappearance. He’s warning that democracy’s flattening effect can erode certain forms of moral energy - the willingness to sacrifice comfort for recognition, the seriousness attached to public judgment. If honor vanishes, something freer may emerge, but also something thinner: a society governed more by interest and utility than by the costly rituals of pride.
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Tocqueville, Alexis de. (2026, January 18). It is the dissimilarities and inequalities among men which give rise to the notion of honor; as such differences become less, it grows feeble; and when they disappear, it will vanish too. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-the-dissimilarities-and-inequalities-among-16720/
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Tocqueville, Alexis de. "It is the dissimilarities and inequalities among men which give rise to the notion of honor; as such differences become less, it grows feeble; and when they disappear, it will vanish too." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-the-dissimilarities-and-inequalities-among-16720/.
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"It is the dissimilarities and inequalities among men which give rise to the notion of honor; as such differences become less, it grows feeble; and when they disappear, it will vanish too." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-the-dissimilarities-and-inequalities-among-16720/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








