"It is usually expensive and lonely to be principled"
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“Lonely” sharpens the knife. Theroux isn’t describing principled people as heroic martyrs, surrounded by moral grandeur. He’s describing the social physics of dissent: the group protects itself, not the standard. In most institutions - literary, political, corporate, even familial - belonging is the primary currency, and principle is what you spend when you refuse the quiet bargains that keep relationships frictionless. The subtext is that being “good” is less about inner purity than about enduring the awkwardness of being the person who won’t go along.
Contextually, Theroux’s career sits close to travel writing and cultural critique, modes built on looking at communities from the outside. That perspective breeds a specific realism about how moral choices play out on the ground: righteousness isn’t abstract; it’s logistical. You pay. You eat alone. And if you’re lucky, you still believe it was worth it.
Quote Details
| Topic | Honesty & Integrity |
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| Source | Verified source: The Happy Isles of Oceania (Paul Theroux, 2012)ISBN: 9780241964217 · ID: EEmR5ZV_s5cC
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Paddling the Pacific Paul Theroux. " Lovely . " Now you are not alone , I told myself . I had admired David Lange ... It is usually expensive and lonely to be principled ; this seemed like political suicide . But Lange stuck it out ... |
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