"It is very difficult to get up resentment towards persons whom one has never seen"
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The subtext is a quiet warning about how easily ethical life gets distorted by distance. When you don’t see the person, you can’t read their ordinary human cues: hesitation, fatigue, affection, fear. Without those friction points, resentment either fails to ignite or, more dangerously, gets replaced by a thinner, more ideological substitute - hostility toward a category, a rumor, a caricature. Newman is attentive to how moral emotions are trained. Proximity disciplines judgment; distance invites fantasy.
Context matters here. Newman wrote in a 19th-century Britain where religious and political conflict was mediated through pamphlets, newspapers, and institutional talk - a public sphere increasingly capable of manufacturing enemies at scale while keeping them physically remote. As a clergyman (and a convert whose life was shaped by suspicion and polemic), he had reason to notice how secondhand narratives harden into resentment without ever encountering the human being underneath.
The line still feels contemporary because it anticipates a modern pathology: the outrage economy, where resentment is curated toward strangers. Newman’s insight is not sentimental; it’s practical. If you want less resentment, don’t just preach charity - reduce the distance that makes dehumanization effortless.
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| Topic | Anger |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Newman, John Henry. (2026, January 18). It is very difficult to get up resentment towards persons whom one has never seen. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-very-difficult-to-get-up-resentment-towards-5652/
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Newman, John Henry. "It is very difficult to get up resentment towards persons whom one has never seen." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-very-difficult-to-get-up-resentment-towards-5652/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It is very difficult to get up resentment towards persons whom one has never seen." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-very-difficult-to-get-up-resentment-towards-5652/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.










