"It is very hard to be a female leader. While it is assumed that any man, no matter how tough, has a soft side... and female leader is assumed to be one-dimensional"
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The intent isn’t to ask for sympathy; it’s to expose how standards masquerade as personality judgments. “One-dimensional” is doing heavy work here: it’s not merely an insult, it’s a cultural editing process. Women leaders are denied the range that makes leadership legible. If you show toughness, you’re stripped of warmth. If you show warmth, your toughness is treated as cosplay. The space to contain contradictions - the thing we call character - is rationed.
The context matters because King didn’t learn this in a seminar; she learned it as the most visible athlete in a sport forced to justify women’s excellence in dollars and dignity. Her activism for equal prize money and her public fight for credibility made her, effectively, a leader in a culture eager to punish women who won and spoke. The quote lands because it shows the real asymmetry: men are allowed to be whole people; women are evaluated like symbols.
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| Topic | Equality |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
King, Billie Jean. (2026, January 15). It is very hard to be a female leader. While it is assumed that any man, no matter how tough, has a soft side... and female leader is assumed to be one-dimensional. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-very-hard-to-be-a-female-leader-while-it-is-141515/
Chicago Style
King, Billie Jean. "It is very hard to be a female leader. While it is assumed that any man, no matter how tough, has a soft side... and female leader is assumed to be one-dimensional." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-very-hard-to-be-a-female-leader-while-it-is-141515/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It is very hard to be a female leader. While it is assumed that any man, no matter how tough, has a soft side... and female leader is assumed to be one-dimensional." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-very-hard-to-be-a-female-leader-while-it-is-141515/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.










