"It isn't easy to accept that suffering can also be beautiful... it's difficult. It's something you can only understand if you dig deeply into yourself"
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The subtext is deeply Fassbinderian: beauty isn’t the opposite of damage, it’s the strange clarity that damage can produce. His films keep returning to the machinery of dependence, exploitation, and longing - relationships that hurt because they’re real, because power is never evenly distributed, because love is rarely pure. In that world, suffering becomes “beautiful” not as spectacle, but as revelation: it exposes what people will do to be held, to be seen, to survive.
“You can only understand if you dig deeply into yourself” rejects detached pity. Fassbinder isn’t asking for empathy as performance; he’s demanding complicity be examined. The line implies that if you’re quick to condemn the idea, it may be because you haven’t faced the ways you aestheticize your own wounds, or the ways you benefit from someone else’s. He frames acceptance as interior labor, not philosophical agreement: beauty is what you find when you look long enough at what you’d rather narrate away.
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"It isn't easy to accept that suffering can also be beautiful... it's difficult. It's something you can only understand if you dig deeply into yourself." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-isnt-easy-to-accept-that-suffering-can-also-be-155864/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










