"It makes one a better person to have had hardships and to have overcome hardships and not to blame anybody else for your mistakes"
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Forrester’s line reads like backstage wisdom, the kind you don’t get from a masterclass on breath control but from years of missed cues, brutal reviews, bad contracts, and the private loneliness that can trail a public voice. As a musician, she’s not romanticizing suffering; she’s outlining a practical ethic for survival in an art form where your body is your instrument and your instrument is always on trial.
The key move is her insistence on “overcome” paired with “not to blame anybody else.” Hardship alone doesn’t ennoble; it can just harden. What she’s praising is the conversion of difficulty into agency. The subtext is anti-diva, anti-excuse culture: in a world that trains performers to curate a spotless persona and locate every failure in external sabotage (the conductor, the acoustics, the critics, the industry), she argues that maturity is choosing ownership even when you have plausible villains.
It also nudges against a sentimental narrative that artists are entitled to special fragility. Forrester, who built a career in a mid-century classical scene that was often ruthless and hierarchical, suggests that character is a craft like musicianship: practiced under pressure, refined by error, strengthened by repetition. “Your mistakes” is doing heavy lifting here; it’s intimate, not abstract. She’s telling you where dignity lives: not in never falling short, but in refusing the cheap relief of scapegoats. In that sense, the quote isn’t motivational wallpaper. It’s a demand for moral musicianship.
The key move is her insistence on “overcome” paired with “not to blame anybody else.” Hardship alone doesn’t ennoble; it can just harden. What she’s praising is the conversion of difficulty into agency. The subtext is anti-diva, anti-excuse culture: in a world that trains performers to curate a spotless persona and locate every failure in external sabotage (the conductor, the acoustics, the critics, the industry), she argues that maturity is choosing ownership even when you have plausible villains.
It also nudges against a sentimental narrative that artists are entitled to special fragility. Forrester, who built a career in a mid-century classical scene that was often ruthless and hierarchical, suggests that character is a craft like musicianship: practiced under pressure, refined by error, strengthened by repetition. “Your mistakes” is doing heavy lifting here; it’s intimate, not abstract. She’s telling you where dignity lives: not in never falling short, but in refusing the cheap relief of scapegoats. In that sense, the quote isn’t motivational wallpaper. It’s a demand for moral musicianship.
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| Topic | Overcoming Obstacles |
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