"It matters more how one gives than what one gives"
About this Quote
As a dramatist, Corneille is alert to the theater inside everyday life. His characters often live and die by how actions are read: honor is less a private virtue than a public interpretation. This aphorism turns that Corneillean obsession into social advice. A lavish gift delivered with superiority can humiliate the receiver, making charity feel like conquest. A modest gift offered with respect can preserve the recipient's dignity, which is the real scarcity in unequal relationships. The subtext is almost ruthless: giving can be violent when it asserts power; it can be liberating when it refuses to.
Placed in 17th-century France, where rank was formalized and dependence was common, the quote reads like a corrective to aristocratic display. It's also a quiet warning about self-deception. People love to treat generosity as proof of goodness, measurable in totals. Corneille insists the proof is behavioral: the tone of the handoff, the absence of strings, the ability to give without demanding gratitude as interest.
Quote Details
| Topic | Kindness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Corneille, Pierre. (2026, January 16). It matters more how one gives than what one gives. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-matters-more-how-one-gives-than-what-one-gives-101448/
Chicago Style
Corneille, Pierre. "It matters more how one gives than what one gives." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-matters-more-how-one-gives-than-what-one-gives-101448/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It matters more how one gives than what one gives." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-matters-more-how-one-gives-than-what-one-gives-101448/. Accessed 24 Feb. 2026.











