"It may sound terrible, but I often say that the military saved me from a conventional life in the United States and I've never really thanked them for it, because I haven't exactly been pro-military in my work"
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The phrase “saved me from a conventional life” does a lot of work. Lifton isn’t praising militarism; he’s acknowledging how the draft-era military functioned as a violent kind of social mobility program, pushing certain lives into contact with extremity, mortality, and the state’s power. For a young clinician, that proximity becomes formative material: less a career boost than an existential rerouting. The subtext is uncomfortable and honest: critique is sometimes born from access, and access is often granted by the very systems one later opposes.
His final clause is the tell: “because I haven’t exactly been pro-military in my work.” The hedge (“exactly”) keeps him from caricature. Lifton’s stance isn’t anti-soldier; it’s anti-romance about what institutions do to people and what people do under institutional pressure. The line captures a distinctly American tension: we want dissent to be pure, untainted by benefit. Lifton’s point is that lived experience is messier - and that messiness is where serious moral psychology starts.
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Lifton, Robert Jay. (2026, January 15). It may sound terrible, but I often say that the military saved me from a conventional life in the United States and I've never really thanked them for it, because I haven't exactly been pro-military in my work. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-may-sound-terrible-but-i-often-say-that-the-154059/
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Lifton, Robert Jay. "It may sound terrible, but I often say that the military saved me from a conventional life in the United States and I've never really thanked them for it, because I haven't exactly been pro-military in my work." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-may-sound-terrible-but-i-often-say-that-the-154059/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It may sound terrible, but I often say that the military saved me from a conventional life in the United States and I've never really thanked them for it, because I haven't exactly been pro-military in my work." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-may-sound-terrible-but-i-often-say-that-the-154059/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.




