"It never occurred to me that I couldn't change things that needed changing or couldn't have what I wanted if I worked hard enough and was good enough"
About this Quote
The quote works because it ties personal desire to moral merit. "Worked hard enough and was good enough" is the old bargain of meritocracy: deliver value, earn reward. Turner’s subtext is both inspiring and slightly tragic, because anyone who has watched the entertainment industry knows that hard work and talent are necessary, rarely sufficient. Casting, ageism, body politics, and gatekeeping are indifferent to deserving. Her formulation carries the era’s second-wave feminism energy - not a manifesto, but a lived presumption of agency.
Context matters: Turner came up in a time when leading women could be both sexual and commanding on screen, then watched the industry narrow its idea of who gets to be complex as actresses age. The quote reads like a recovered origin story of selfhood, and a quiet indictment of every system that tries to make that origin feel unrealistic.
Quote Details
| Topic | Never Give Up |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Turner, Kathleen. (2026, January 16). It never occurred to me that I couldn't change things that needed changing or couldn't have what I wanted if I worked hard enough and was good enough. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-never-occurred-to-me-that-i-couldnt-change-95845/
Chicago Style
Turner, Kathleen. "It never occurred to me that I couldn't change things that needed changing or couldn't have what I wanted if I worked hard enough and was good enough." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-never-occurred-to-me-that-i-couldnt-change-95845/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It never occurred to me that I couldn't change things that needed changing or couldn't have what I wanted if I worked hard enough and was good enough." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-never-occurred-to-me-that-i-couldnt-change-95845/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.






