"It only seems as if you're doing something when you worry"
About this Quote
Coming from an educator and novelist best known for the interior lives of young people, the intent reads as both practical and moral. It’s classroom advice dressed as philosophy: stop confusing agitation with effort. The subtext is an indictment of a culture (and a temperament) that rewards visible distress. If you look worried, you look invested. If you’re calm, you risk being read as careless. Montgomery flips that logic, insisting that composure is often the precondition for real work.
The historical context matters too. Montgomery wrote through the long shadow of Victorian “nerves,” World War I, and the everyday precarity of early 20th-century domestic life. Worry wasn’t an abstract habit; it was a socially sanctioned posture, especially for women tasked with holding households - and feelings - together. The quote doesn’t deny that there are reasons to worry. It denies worry’s claim to usefulness. That’s why it lands: it doesn’t shame fear, it demotes it. It tells you the truth anxiety hates most - that it can be loud, urgent, exhausting, and still accomplish nothing.
Quote Details
| Topic | Anxiety |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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Citation Formats
APA Style (7th ed.)
Montgomery, Lucy Maud. (2026, January 16). It only seems as if you're doing something when you worry. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-only-seems-as-if-youre-doing-something-when-127523/
Chicago Style
Montgomery, Lucy Maud. "It only seems as if you're doing something when you worry." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-only-seems-as-if-youre-doing-something-when-127523/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It only seems as if you're doing something when you worry." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-only-seems-as-if-youre-doing-something-when-127523/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.










