"It only works because we still amuse each other. After we have been working with other people, it is so refreshing to laugh unreservedly when we are back together again"
About this Quote
The subtext is that shared humor is more than entertainment; it’s a private language that proves the relationship is still alive. “Amuse each other” implies mutuality, not performance. Nobody is the designated clown carrying the emotional labor. They both get to be ridiculous, both get to be seen, both get to be surprised. That’s a subtle flex in a culture that often treats long-term relationships as a slow drift into managerial cohabitation.
The context matters: “After we have been working with other people” nods to the social self we put on for colleagues and strangers. Work is a kind of soft surveillance; you’re always editing. Coming home and “laugh[ing] unreservedly” is the opposite of that. Edmondson is describing a relationship as a decompression chamber, where you can drop the persona and return to a shared, slightly feral honesty. The intent isn’t to sentimentalize love; it’s to defend the everyday mechanism that keeps it bearable.
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| Topic | Funny Friendship |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Edmondson, Adrian. (2026, January 17). It only works because we still amuse each other. After we have been working with other people, it is so refreshing to laugh unreservedly when we are back together again. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-only-works-because-we-still-amuse-each-other-36405/
Chicago Style
Edmondson, Adrian. "It only works because we still amuse each other. After we have been working with other people, it is so refreshing to laugh unreservedly when we are back together again." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-only-works-because-we-still-amuse-each-other-36405/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It only works because we still amuse each other. After we have been working with other people, it is so refreshing to laugh unreservedly when we are back together again." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-only-works-because-we-still-amuse-each-other-36405/. Accessed 17 Feb. 2026.



