"It seems essential, in relationships and all tasks, that we concentrate only on what is most significant and important"
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The subtext is less self-help than spiritual triage. Kierkegaard wrote against a 19th-century Danish culture he saw as comfortably Christian in name, anesthetized by respectability, and addicted to “the public” as a way to avoid personal accountability. “Concentrate only” is not efficiency talk; it’s an existential injunction. The important thing is not whatever your calendar screams loudest, but the commitment that requires you to choose and, crucially, to forgo. His ethics run on sacrifice: to love is to will one thing for another; to act authentically is to accept the narrowing of options that choice entails.
What makes the sentence work is its quiet pressure. It doesn’t romanticize focus; it frames it as necessary, almost medical. In Kierkegaard’s universe, scattering attention isn’t just unproductive, it’s a way of dodging the self and, by extension, dodging God. The line sounds calm because it’s aimed at panic: the panic of infinite possibilities, infinite opinions, infinite little duties. “Most significant and important” is his antidote to a life spent skimming.
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"It seems essential, in relationships and all tasks, that we concentrate only on what is most significant and important." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-seems-essential-in-relationships-and-all-tasks-23935/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










