"It seems to me that one thing people do over and over again is try to figure out how to get married, stay married, fall in love, how to rekindle all this stuff. It seems to me to be a pretty eternal theme so I don't know if you can get typecast from making movies about men relating to women. It seems to be what is going on on the planet a lot"
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The intent is to neutralize the stigma of being "typecast" in relationship stories. Cusack reframes romantic narratives as less a genre than a human operating system. The subtext is that cultural gatekeepers treat "men relating to women" as narrow, maybe even unserious, while granting automatic prestige to other recurring movie subjects like violence, ambition, or lone male heroism. He’s calling out that bias without sounding defensive.
Context matters: Cusack’s screen persona was built on articulate longing and ironic tenderness, from Say Anything to High Fidelity. Those films weren’t just romances; they were masculinity studies in a pop key, preoccupied with how men narrate themselves into and out of intimacy. His point lands because it’s true and slightly accusatory: if love, marriage, and relapse into old patterns are "eternal", then dismissing them as repetitive says more about the audience’s impatience than the material’s limits.
The final line, "what is going on on the planet a lot", is deliberately plain. It’s a small refusal of Hollywood cynicism, insisting that the supposedly smaller stakes are actually the ones most people live inside every day.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Cusack, John. (2026, January 15). It seems to me that one thing people do over and over again is try to figure out how to get married, stay married, fall in love, how to rekindle all this stuff. It seems to me to be a pretty eternal theme so I don't know if you can get typecast from making movies about men relating to women. It seems to be what is going on on the planet a lot. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-seems-to-me-that-one-thing-people-do-over-and-83724/
Chicago Style
Cusack, John. "It seems to me that one thing people do over and over again is try to figure out how to get married, stay married, fall in love, how to rekindle all this stuff. It seems to me to be a pretty eternal theme so I don't know if you can get typecast from making movies about men relating to women. It seems to be what is going on on the planet a lot." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-seems-to-me-that-one-thing-people-do-over-and-83724/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It seems to me that one thing people do over and over again is try to figure out how to get married, stay married, fall in love, how to rekindle all this stuff. It seems to me to be a pretty eternal theme so I don't know if you can get typecast from making movies about men relating to women. It seems to be what is going on on the planet a lot." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-seems-to-me-that-one-thing-people-do-over-and-83724/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.









