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Life & Wisdom Quote by George Eliot

"It seems to me we can never give up longing and wishing while we are thoroughly alive. There are certain things we feel to be beautiful and good, and we must hunger after them"

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Eliot makes longing sound less like a personal deficiency and more like a vital sign. The phrasing is almost clinical in its certainty: "never give up" and "thoroughly alive" draw a hard line between the living and the spiritually sedentary. In a culture that often treats desire as something to manage, monetize, or therapize away, she insists it is the engine. Wishing isn’t childish here; it’s proof that the self is still in motion.

The sentence pivots on a subtle moral claim. Longing isn’t for anything, but for "certain things" we "feel to be beautiful and good". Eliot’s realism was never nihilism; she was fascinated by ordinary lives precisely because moral aspiration keeps erupting inside them, creating friction with circumstance. The hunger she describes is ethical as much as aesthetic: a pull toward ideals that can’t be fully possessed, only pursued. That’s the subtextual sting. If you stop wanting what is good, you may still be alive in the biological sense, but you’ve agreed to shrink.

Context sharpens it. Writing in Victorian England under a male pseudonym, Eliot watched respectability and duty harden into social law, especially for women and the working poor. Her novels repeatedly stage the same dilemma: the human capacity for generous desire colliding with rigid structures, bad marriages, narrow towns, limited money. This quote reads like a rebuke to resignation, but also a warning. Hunger can hurt. Eliot doesn’t promise fulfillment; she argues for staying susceptible to the beautiful anyway, because that susceptibility is what keeps a moral imagination from calcifying.

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Eliot, George. (2026, January 15). It seems to me we can never give up longing and wishing while we are thoroughly alive. There are certain things we feel to be beautiful and good, and we must hunger after them. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-seems-to-me-we-can-never-give-up-longing-and-33218/

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Eliot, George. "It seems to me we can never give up longing and wishing while we are thoroughly alive. There are certain things we feel to be beautiful and good, and we must hunger after them." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-seems-to-me-we-can-never-give-up-longing-and-33218/.

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"It seems to me we can never give up longing and wishing while we are thoroughly alive. There are certain things we feel to be beautiful and good, and we must hunger after them." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-seems-to-me-we-can-never-give-up-longing-and-33218/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.

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George Eliot (November 22, 1819 - December 22, 1880) was a Author from United Kingdom.

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