"It slaps your dignity just right. I loved the idea of these proud, dignified black men, and I saw the older ones wounded, and it wounded me ten times as much because I couldn't stand seeing them hurt like this"
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The emotional voltage comes from the image he chooses: “proud, dignified black men.” He isn’t romanticizing toughness; he’s naming a hard-won posture in a world designed to make Black men small. By singling out “older ones,” he points to a generational contract. Elders are supposed to be the proof that survival has meaning, that endurance can produce a kind of authority. Watching them “wounded” is devastating because it rewrites that story in real time: if even they can be broken, what’s protection worth?
“I couldn’t stand seeing them hurt like this” reads like a private confession, but it’s also cultural context. Jones came up in mid-century America, in integrated bands and segregated cities, watching respectability and excellence still get punished. The subtext is rage disciplined into craft: the impulse not just to grieve but to make something - music, success, control of the room - that refuses the script. The “ten times” isn’t math; it’s the multiplier effect of witnessing humiliation travel through a community like an aftershock.
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Jones, Quincy. (2026, January 15). It slaps your dignity just right. I loved the idea of these proud, dignified black men, and I saw the older ones wounded, and it wounded me ten times as much because I couldn't stand seeing them hurt like this. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-slaps-your-dignity-just-right-i-loved-the-idea-162281/
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Jones, Quincy. "It slaps your dignity just right. I loved the idea of these proud, dignified black men, and I saw the older ones wounded, and it wounded me ten times as much because I couldn't stand seeing them hurt like this." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-slaps-your-dignity-just-right-i-loved-the-idea-162281/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It slaps your dignity just right. I loved the idea of these proud, dignified black men, and I saw the older ones wounded, and it wounded me ten times as much because I couldn't stand seeing them hurt like this." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-slaps-your-dignity-just-right-i-loved-the-idea-162281/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.






