"It smote me to the heart that I had found no one in all the world who loved me more than all others"
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The real engine is the strange absolutism of "more than all others". It's not just a wish for affection; it's a demand for total preference, for a guaranteed first place in someone else's hierarchy. Muller admits the need most of us hide: not to be liked, but to be uniquely chosen. The subtext is embarrassing by design. In a culture that prized duty, restraint, and public composure, the confession functions as a crack in the facade - and, crucially, as a teaching tool. It sets up the classic moral pivot: if no one can love you "most", perhaps the problem is the expectation itself, and the remedy is to widen love beyond possession.
Context matters: Muller moved between Germany and Britain, between scholarship and faith, between institutional esteem and private isolation. The line carries the paradox of the celebrated educator: surrounded by minds, starved for the one kind of intimacy that can't be earned by achievement. Its intent isn't to wallow; it's to shame the fantasy of being indispensable, then redirect the reader toward a less competitive, less transactional idea of care.
Quote Details
| Topic | Heartbreak |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Muller, Max. (2026, January 16). It smote me to the heart that I had found no one in all the world who loved me more than all others. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-smote-me-to-the-heart-that-i-had-found-no-one-88808/
Chicago Style
Muller, Max. "It smote me to the heart that I had found no one in all the world who loved me more than all others." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-smote-me-to-the-heart-that-i-had-found-no-one-88808/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It smote me to the heart that I had found no one in all the world who loved me more than all others." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-smote-me-to-the-heart-that-i-had-found-no-one-88808/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





