"It takes a great man to be a good listener"
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The brilliance is in the reversal. Listening is usually framed as a courtesy, the lesser skill that supports the real star: talking. Coolidge flips the hierarchy. To listen well, he implies, you need the kind of ego discipline that only "greatness" can afford. The subtext is unapologetically elitist in a way that feels almost Puritan: self-mastery separates leaders from attention-seekers. It's also a subtle rebuke to political showmen. The truly powerful, he suggests, don't need to audition for the room; they can wait, absorb, decide.
There's a second layer of intent: leadership by information rather than performance. In an era of patronage politics and backroom deals, a listener collects leverage. Hearing more than you reveal is strategy. The quote flatters quiet people, yes, but it also elevates Coolidge's own governing style into a moral category - turning reticence into proof of character, and character into justification for authority.
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| Topic | Humility |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Coolidge, Calvin. (2026, January 15). It takes a great man to be a good listener. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-takes-a-great-man-to-be-a-good-listener-5287/
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Coolidge, Calvin. "It takes a great man to be a good listener." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-takes-a-great-man-to-be-a-good-listener-5287/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It takes a great man to be a good listener." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-takes-a-great-man-to-be-a-good-listener-5287/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.













