"It takes a man to suffer ignorance and smile"
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There is a quiet swagger in that line, the kind that doesn’t need a guitar solo to land. “It takes a man” sounds like a compliment to masculinity, but Sting uses it as a stress test: manhood isn’t dominance, it’s restraint under insult. The sting (no pun wasted) comes from pairing “suffer ignorance” with “smile.” Ignorance isn’t framed as a tragic absence of knowledge; it’s an active force you have to endure, the everyday abrasion of people who are loud, wrong, and unmoved by correction. Smiling at it isn’t approval. It’s strategy.
Sting’s best writing often lives in that tension between the romantic and the political, between the private cost of being decent and the public theater that punishes it. The line feels like it’s looking at a world where outrage is easy currency and righteousness is often performative. Choosing the smile is less “be nice” than “don’t let stupidity draft you into its war.” It’s an ethic of self-possession: keep your dignity, keep the room calm, keep your own blood pressure down.
The subtext is also self-indicting. To “suffer” suggests you’re not above contempt; you feel it, you just refuse to let it steer. Coming from a pop figure who’s spent decades in the glare of interviews, critics, and fans, it reads like a veteran’s note from the front lines of being misunderstood: sometimes maturity is swallowing the perfect retort because the argument isn’t worth becoming.
Sting’s best writing often lives in that tension between the romantic and the political, between the private cost of being decent and the public theater that punishes it. The line feels like it’s looking at a world where outrage is easy currency and righteousness is often performative. Choosing the smile is less “be nice” than “don’t let stupidity draft you into its war.” It’s an ethic of self-possession: keep your dignity, keep the room calm, keep your own blood pressure down.
The subtext is also self-indicting. To “suffer” suggests you’re not above contempt; you feel it, you just refuse to let it steer. Coming from a pop figure who’s spent decades in the glare of interviews, critics, and fans, it reads like a veteran’s note from the front lines of being misunderstood: sometimes maturity is swallowing the perfect retort because the argument isn’t worth becoming.
Quote Details
| Topic | Wisdom |
|---|---|
| Source | 'It takes a man to suffer ignorance and smile', lyric from 'Englishman in New York', Sting (1987), album '...Nothing Like the Sun' |
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