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Daily Inspiration Quote by Erich Segal

"It takes someone very special to help you forget someone very special"

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A heartbreak line that flatters while it stings, Segal’s sentence is engineered to make letting go feel like an act of loyalty rather than betrayal. The cleverness sits in the repetition: “someone very special” appears twice, like a bruise you keep pressing to prove it’s real. In a single loop, Segal honors the old love and sanctifies the new presence, refusing the usual hierarchy where moving on means demoting what came before.

The intent is consolatory, but not soft. It proposes a high bar for recovery: you don’t heal by distraction, time, or self-help slogans; you heal because another person is extraordinary enough to rewrite your emotional memory. That’s the subtextual gamble. It romanticizes replacement while insisting it isn’t replacement at all. Forgetting, normally framed as failure or cruelty, becomes an achievement made possible by rare intimacy.

Segal’s context matters. As the author of Love Story, he made his name on the idea that devotion is proven through suffering and that romance is most convincing when it carries a cost. This line fits that worldview: love is “special” precisely because it leaves a mark, and the next love must be equally exceptional to lift it. There’s an implicit melancholy in the compliment, too. If it takes someone “very special,” then most people won’t qualify, and most heartbreaks won’t be neatly resolved.

It works because it validates both grief and desire at once: you’re not weak for missing them, and you’re not shallow for wanting someone else. Segal turns a messy emotional contradiction into a neat moral permission slip.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Segal, Erich. (2026, January 15). It takes someone very special to help you forget someone very special. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-takes-someone-very-special-to-help-you-forget-173436/

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Segal, Erich. "It takes someone very special to help you forget someone very special." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-takes-someone-very-special-to-help-you-forget-173436/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It takes someone very special to help you forget someone very special." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-takes-someone-very-special-to-help-you-forget-173436/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Erich Segal

Erich Segal (June 16, 1937 - January 17, 2010) was a Novelist from USA.

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