"It took me 36 years to be able to be by myself and like it"
About this Quote
The intent is quietly radical: to reframe being alone from punishment to privilege. The subtext is that fame can make solitude feel like abandonment, because attention becomes a kind of oxygen you don’t realize you’re dependent on until it’s gone. Judd’s phrasing also sidesteps the triumphant makeover narrative. She doesn’t claim she "found herself" or "finally healed". She says "be able to", which implies earlier attempts that failed, and "like it", which suggests the goal wasn’t isolation but peace.
Culturally, the quote cuts through the noise of hyperconnected life and public-facing wellness talk. It argues that independence isn’t a personality trait; it’s a learned tolerance for silence, for not performing, for letting your life be unobserved. That’s a country-music truth told without sentimentality: the hardest audience to satisfy is the one in your own head.
Quote Details
| Topic | Self-Love |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Judd, Wynonna. (2026, January 16). It took me 36 years to be able to be by myself and like it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-took-me-36-years-to-be-able-to-be-by-myself-119908/
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Judd, Wynonna. "It took me 36 years to be able to be by myself and like it." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-took-me-36-years-to-be-able-to-be-by-myself-119908/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It took me 36 years to be able to be by myself and like it." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-took-me-36-years-to-be-able-to-be-by-myself-119908/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.









