"It took me a long time, but I don't feel as anxious about stupid things anymore - or perhaps they've just been replaced by more complicated stupid things"
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The phrase “stupid things” is doing sly work. It’s not really about the things; it’s about the disproportion between event and emotional response. Calling them “stupid” isn’t cruelty toward the self so much as a reclamation of scale: anxiety inflates, adulthood deflates. Yet Finn won’t pretend maturity is enlightenment. “More complicated stupid things” suggests the anxiety doesn’t disappear, it professionalizes. You trade adolescent catastrophes for adult ones: mortgages, careers, relationships, reputations - higher stakes, better vocabulary, same nervous system.
As a musician, Finn is steeped in the public myth of the tortured, sensitive artist. This line quietly resists that romantic branding. He’s not selling pain as authenticity; he’s normalizing the messy continuity of being a person over decades. The subtext is oddly comforting: progress can look like swapping one set of irrational worries for another, and that still counts as living, adapting, staying in motion. The laugh isn’t dismissive; it’s recognition.
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| Topic | Anxiety |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Finn, Neil. (2026, January 16). It took me a long time, but I don't feel as anxious about stupid things anymore - or perhaps they've just been replaced by more complicated stupid things. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-took-me-a-long-time-but-i-dont-feel-as-anxious-108587/
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Finn, Neil. "It took me a long time, but I don't feel as anxious about stupid things anymore - or perhaps they've just been replaced by more complicated stupid things." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-took-me-a-long-time-but-i-dont-feel-as-anxious-108587/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It took me a long time, but I don't feel as anxious about stupid things anymore - or perhaps they've just been replaced by more complicated stupid things." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-took-me-a-long-time-but-i-dont-feel-as-anxious-108587/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.







