"It took me a year to really learn the American lingo. I really feel for people who are coming here and don't speak English at all. It must be hell"
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The pivot to empathy is the real punch. By admitting she struggled even with a baseline advantage, she punctures the myth that assimilation is just a matter of effort. “I really feel for people” is not celebrity charity; it’s an acknowledgment of how language becomes a gatekeeping tool in workplaces, hospitals, schools, and bureaucracies where misunderstanding carries consequences. Then she drops the polite register entirely: “It must be hell.” That bluntness matters. It doesn’t romanticize resilience or frame hardship as character-building. It frames it as suffering - prolonged, isolating, and often unnecessary.
Context sharpens it further. Reddy, a pop-cultural figure who built a career on being heard, is confessing how easily a voice can be muffled by accent and idiom. The subtext is a quiet critique of a country that demands fluency not just in words, but in belonging - and punishes you socially until you acquire it.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Reddy, Helen. (2026, January 16). It took me a year to really learn the American lingo. I really feel for people who are coming here and don't speak English at all. It must be hell. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-took-me-a-year-to-really-learn-the-american-91213/
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Reddy, Helen. "It took me a year to really learn the American lingo. I really feel for people who are coming here and don't speak English at all. It must be hell." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-took-me-a-year-to-really-learn-the-american-91213/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It took me a year to really learn the American lingo. I really feel for people who are coming here and don't speak English at all. It must be hell." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-took-me-a-year-to-really-learn-the-american-91213/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






