"It used to be that you came out of school, and you got married - those who were going to get married. But my peers are getting married in their early 30s, so now there's like this extra 10 years of that angst"
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The phrase “those who were going to get married” is doing quiet work. It nods to choice and diversity, but also to how strong the expectation used to be: even opting out was a category the culture recognized. Braff’s “extra 10 years of that angst” frames the intervening decade as emotionally expensive. “Angst” is casual slang, yet it points to something structural: uncertainty about career, identity, housing, and money gets rebranded as personal neurosis. That’s the subtextual sting. The delay isn’t just liberation from old norms; it’s an elongated limbo where every relationship feels like it might be “wasting time,” and every milestone feels both optional and mandatory.
Coming from an actor associated with early-2000s quarter-life malaise (the Garden State era), the remark also reads as cultural self-reporting: the creative class that glamorized drifting is now tallying the psychological bill. It’s not nostalgia for earlier marriage so much as irritation at the absence of a replacement narrative that makes the waiting feel intentional rather than accidental.
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| Topic | Marriage |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Braff, Zach. (2026, January 15). It used to be that you came out of school, and you got married - those who were going to get married. But my peers are getting married in their early 30s, so now there's like this extra 10 years of that angst. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-used-to-be-that-you-came-out-of-school-and-you-153436/
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Braff, Zach. "It used to be that you came out of school, and you got married - those who were going to get married. But my peers are getting married in their early 30s, so now there's like this extra 10 years of that angst." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-used-to-be-that-you-came-out-of-school-and-you-153436/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It used to be that you came out of school, and you got married - those who were going to get married. But my peers are getting married in their early 30s, so now there's like this extra 10 years of that angst." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-used-to-be-that-you-came-out-of-school-and-you-153436/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






