"It was a question of helping a man prepare in the way that suits him best. The theory is if you give a man responsibility for his own actions, then it is up to him to accept that responsibility"
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The phrasing matters. Gower doesn’t talk about “talent” or “motivation,” the usual sporting comfort blankets. He talks about responsibility as something you give, almost like a role or a uniform, and accept as something the player must choose. That subtle distinction shifts blame and pride to the same place: the individual. If things go well, it’s earned; if they go badly, it can’t be explained away as poor man-management.
In context, this reads like an antidote to the paternal, selection-room culture that long defined English cricket, where hierarchy and tradition could smother agency. Gower’s era sat at the hinge between old-school deference and modern professionalism: more media glare, more money, more scrutiny of character. His “theory” is less a grand doctrine than a pragmatic operating system for that transition. It argues that autonomy isn’t softness; it’s a test. Give a player control over his preparation and you also remove his alibis. That’s a quietly bracing bargain.
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Gower, David. (n.d.). It was a question of helping a man prepare in the way that suits him best. The theory is if you give a man responsibility for his own actions, then it is up to him to accept that responsibility. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-was-a-question-of-helping-a-man-prepare-in-the-131789/
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Gower, David. "It was a question of helping a man prepare in the way that suits him best. The theory is if you give a man responsibility for his own actions, then it is up to him to accept that responsibility." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-was-a-question-of-helping-a-man-prepare-in-the-131789/.
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"It was a question of helping a man prepare in the way that suits him best. The theory is if you give a man responsibility for his own actions, then it is up to him to accept that responsibility." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-was-a-question-of-helping-a-man-prepare-in-the-131789/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.












