"It was a very odd household, because the grandmothers were so different. Both of them had their own pianos. So it would be duelling pianos by grandmothers"
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The comedy lands in the image of “duelling pianos by grandmothers,” a phrase that borrows the swagger of a barroom novelty act and drops it into the supposedly polite, decorous realm of elder women. That collision does the work. Grandmothers aren’t meant to “duel”; pianos aren’t meant to be territorial markers. Yet in this household they become exactly that, hinting at competing matriarchs, competing versions of femininity, and competing rules about how the family should sound and behave.
The subtext is less about music than about power. “Both of them had their own pianos” implies parallel courts: separate domains, separate standards, neither yielding. It’s also a sly class tell. Having a piano in the home once signaled cultural aspiration; having two suggests abundance and, more pointedly, a refusal to share symbolic space.
Cilento’s tone keeps it buoyant, but you can feel the lived tension underneath the laugh: childhood as an audience caught between two strong performers, each insisting on her own key.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Cilento, Diane. (2026, January 17). It was a very odd household, because the grandmothers were so different. Both of them had their own pianos. So it would be duelling pianos by grandmothers. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-was-a-very-odd-household-because-the-81879/
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Cilento, Diane. "It was a very odd household, because the grandmothers were so different. Both of them had their own pianos. So it would be duelling pianos by grandmothers." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-was-a-very-odd-household-because-the-81879/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It was a very odd household, because the grandmothers were so different. Both of them had their own pianos. So it would be duelling pianos by grandmothers." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-was-a-very-odd-household-because-the-81879/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.





