"It was all a back-handed blessing, and my friends were the ones who kept the faith, read my work, and urged me to submit it to publishers (by sending it out for me - they would not hear no for an answer)"
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The real power in the passage is how it relocates authorship. Banks doesn’t cast himself as the lone artist heroically pressing his manuscript into the world; he depicts a support system that essentially stages an intervention. “Kept the faith” is almost religious language, implying he couldn’t always muster belief in his own work. Then comes the wonderfully specific admission: his friends submitted the work “by sending it out for me.” That parenthetical is doing a lot of work. It’s funny in a dry, self-exposing way, but it also reveals embarrassment and relief: he needed other people to want his career on his behalf.
“They would not hear no for an answer” flips the usual narrative of rejection. The obstacle isn’t publishers’ refusal; it’s the author’s. Subtext: Banks’s “no” was fear disguised as modesty, or a performer’s suspicion that writing would be judged more harshly than acting. Intent-wise, the quote reads like a public debt note, giving credit to the unpaid producers in his life - the friends who believed persistence could outmuscle self-doubt.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Banks, Leslie. (2026, February 16). It was all a back-handed blessing, and my friends were the ones who kept the faith, read my work, and urged me to submit it to publishers (by sending it out for me - they would not hear no for an answer). FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-was-all-a-back-handed-blessing-and-my-friends-162324/
Chicago Style
Banks, Leslie. "It was all a back-handed blessing, and my friends were the ones who kept the faith, read my work, and urged me to submit it to publishers (by sending it out for me - they would not hear no for an answer)." FixQuotes. February 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-was-all-a-back-handed-blessing-and-my-friends-162324/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It was all a back-handed blessing, and my friends were the ones who kept the faith, read my work, and urged me to submit it to publishers (by sending it out for me - they would not hear no for an answer)." FixQuotes, 16 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-was-all-a-back-handed-blessing-and-my-friends-162324/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.






