"It was all about music, about getting your friends to come and see you play. I don't see that same intimacy happening very much today"
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The second sentence twists the knife. "I don't see that same intimacy" isn't just an old-guy complaint about kids these days; it's a diagnosis of a culture that traded proximity for reach. Even before social media hardened into default, Staley is pointing at the shift from local permission to mass visibility. When attention becomes the currency, you don't need your friends so much as you need an audience. That swap changes the artist, too: you start playing to strangers you can imagine but can't feel, and the feedback loop becomes numbers, not faces.
Coming from the singer of Alice in Chains, the line carries extra weight. Grunge marketed itself as anti-gloss, but it was still swallowed by industrial-scale fame. Staley's phrasing sounds like someone watching a private ritual get scaled up and flattened. The subtext is longing and suspicion: if music stops being a reason to gather, what happens to the part of it that keeps you human?
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| Topic | Music |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Staley, Layne. (2026, January 16). It was all about music, about getting your friends to come and see you play. I don't see that same intimacy happening very much today. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-was-all-about-music-about-getting-your-friends-87266/
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Staley, Layne. "It was all about music, about getting your friends to come and see you play. I don't see that same intimacy happening very much today." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-was-all-about-music-about-getting-your-friends-87266/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It was all about music, about getting your friends to come and see you play. I don't see that same intimacy happening very much today." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-was-all-about-music-about-getting-your-friends-87266/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.



