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Life & Mortality Quote by Gabriel Byrne

"It was either Voltaire or Charlie Sheen who said, 'We are born alone. We live alone. We die alone. And anything in between that can give us the illusion that we're not, we cling to.'"

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Byrne’s line opens with a sly bait-and-switch: Voltaire or Charlie Sheen. High Enlightenment satirist versus tabloid-id pop chaos. The joke isn’t just a punchline; it’s a statement about authority. In a culture that treats quotes like currency, attribution becomes a costume you can slip onto any thought to make it feel truer, deeper, more shareable. Byrne exposes that reflex, then uses it.

The core claim is bleak but carefully packaged: aloneness isn’t a phase, it’s the default setting. The rhythm does the heavy lifting: born, live, die. Three blunt beats, no decoration, like a stage direction delivered with a straight face. Then comes the pivot into “anything in between,” where the sentence suddenly softens into something recognizably human. He doesn’t mock our need for connection; he names it as “illusion” and still grants it value. The verb “cling” is doing the emotional work here: desperate, bodily, not elegant. It suggests that relationships, art, religion, fame, even fandom can be less about meaning than about not falling.

Coming from an actor, this isn’t incidental. Byrne’s profession is built on inhabiting other people to make an audience feel less alone together. The subtext is that performance is both the lie and the lifeline: we know it’s constructed, and we show up anyway. The Voltaire/Sheen gag frames that bargain: we’ll accept wisdom from anywhere, provided it buys us a few minutes of shared air.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Byrne, Gabriel. (2026, January 15). It was either Voltaire or Charlie Sheen who said, 'We are born alone. We live alone. We die alone. And anything in between that can give us the illusion that we're not, we cling to.'. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-was-either-voltaire-or-charlie-sheen-who-said-149342/

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Byrne, Gabriel. "It was either Voltaire or Charlie Sheen who said, 'We are born alone. We live alone. We die alone. And anything in between that can give us the illusion that we're not, we cling to.'." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-was-either-voltaire-or-charlie-sheen-who-said-149342/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It was either Voltaire or Charlie Sheen who said, 'We are born alone. We live alone. We die alone. And anything in between that can give us the illusion that we're not, we cling to.'." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-was-either-voltaire-or-charlie-sheen-who-said-149342/. Accessed 25 Feb. 2026.

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Gabriel Byrne (born May 12, 1950) is a Actor from Ireland.

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