"It was either Voltaire or Charlie Sheen who said, 'We are born alone. We live alone. We die alone. And anything in between that can give us the illusion that we're not, we cling to.'"
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The core claim is bleak but carefully packaged: aloneness isn’t a phase, it’s the default setting. The rhythm does the heavy lifting: born, live, die. Three blunt beats, no decoration, like a stage direction delivered with a straight face. Then comes the pivot into “anything in between,” where the sentence suddenly softens into something recognizably human. He doesn’t mock our need for connection; he names it as “illusion” and still grants it value. The verb “cling” is doing the emotional work here: desperate, bodily, not elegant. It suggests that relationships, art, religion, fame, even fandom can be less about meaning than about not falling.
Coming from an actor, this isn’t incidental. Byrne’s profession is built on inhabiting other people to make an audience feel less alone together. The subtext is that performance is both the lie and the lifeline: we know it’s constructed, and we show up anyway. The Voltaire/Sheen gag frames that bargain: we’ll accept wisdom from anywhere, provided it buys us a few minutes of shared air.
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| Topic | Loneliness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Byrne, Gabriel. (2026, January 15). It was either Voltaire or Charlie Sheen who said, 'We are born alone. We live alone. We die alone. And anything in between that can give us the illusion that we're not, we cling to.'. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-was-either-voltaire-or-charlie-sheen-who-said-149342/
Chicago Style
Byrne, Gabriel. "It was either Voltaire or Charlie Sheen who said, 'We are born alone. We live alone. We die alone. And anything in between that can give us the illusion that we're not, we cling to.'." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-was-either-voltaire-or-charlie-sheen-who-said-149342/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It was either Voltaire or Charlie Sheen who said, 'We are born alone. We live alone. We die alone. And anything in between that can give us the illusion that we're not, we cling to.'." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-was-either-voltaire-or-charlie-sheen-who-said-149342/. Accessed 25 Feb. 2026.








