"It was hell to go through what I went through. I didn't know I had so many friends. Many people gave a damn about my situation. They helped cure me"
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The second sentence is the pivot, and it’s quietly devastating. “I didn’t know I had so many friends” reads as gratitude, but it’s also an admission of isolation - the kind that can sit inside fame like a locked room. Lugosi’s stilted, slightly formal phrasing (English wasn’t his first language) adds an accidental poignancy: it sounds like someone choosing words carefully because the truth is new to him.
“Many people gave a damn” is the most modern-sounding beat: a spike of plainspoken relief that cuts through the old-world cadence. It hints at the shock of being seen as a person rather than a property, a horror icon on a poster. By the time he says “They helped cure me,” the agency is shared. Cure isn’t a solo triumph here; it’s communal labor, a reframing of recovery as something done with you, not to you.
In mid-century Hollywood, where addiction was both common and carefully managed, Lugosi’s candor functions like a breach in the studio-era script: the star admitting need, and finding a kind of salvation not in image, but in the unglamorous fact of other people showing up.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lugosi, Bela. (2026, January 18). It was hell to go through what I went through. I didn't know I had so many friends. Many people gave a damn about my situation. They helped cure me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-was-hell-to-go-through-what-i-went-through-i-11794/
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Lugosi, Bela. "It was hell to go through what I went through. I didn't know I had so many friends. Many people gave a damn about my situation. They helped cure me." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-was-hell-to-go-through-what-i-went-through-i-11794/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It was hell to go through what I went through. I didn't know I had so many friends. Many people gave a damn about my situation. They helped cure me." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-was-hell-to-go-through-what-i-went-through-i-11794/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.








