"It was just expected that I would go to college. Both my parents are teachers and they tolerated acting, but I was going to go to a school of quality or bust. Which made my downshifting back to acting afterward a little difficult"
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“Tolerated acting” is the tell. Tolerance isn’t support; it’s what you offer a phase you assume will pass. Miller’s sentence makes acting sound like a hobby he’s been granted permission to outgrow, which is why “downshifting back to acting” lands with such bite. He borrows the language of status and career hierarchy: education is the high gear, acting the lower one. That’s not necessarily his belief so much as the inherited judgment he’s wrestling with. The difficulty isn’t only logistical; it’s psychological. Going back isn’t just a choice, it’s a social demotion.
The cultural context matters: for a certain professional-class American family, college isn’t about curiosity as much as insurance. Miller’s anecdote captures the generational bargain: stability first, selfhood later, if at all. By narrating acting as something he returned to “afterward,” he gives us the real drama: the gap between what a “quality” life is supposed to look like and what it actually costs to live one that feels true.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Miller, Wentworth. (2026, January 18). It was just expected that I would go to college. Both my parents are teachers and they tolerated acting, but I was going to go to a school of quality or bust. Which made my downshifting back to acting afterward a little difficult. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-was-just-expected-that-i-would-go-to-college-17515/
Chicago Style
Miller, Wentworth. "It was just expected that I would go to college. Both my parents are teachers and they tolerated acting, but I was going to go to a school of quality or bust. Which made my downshifting back to acting afterward a little difficult." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-was-just-expected-that-i-would-go-to-college-17515/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It was just expected that I would go to college. Both my parents are teachers and they tolerated acting, but I was going to go to a school of quality or bust. Which made my downshifting back to acting afterward a little difficult." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-was-just-expected-that-i-would-go-to-college-17515/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.



