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Letting Go Quote by Laurel Lee

"It was my dream that I had clenched in a fist of discontent and wouldn't release. But time had now pried every finger open. There is peace in an open and upraised hand that isn't grasping for anything"

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A dream becomes less a beacon here than a weapon: something "clenched in a fist of discontent" you can carry around, prove with, blame with. Laurel Lee frames ambition as a form of self-harm, not because wanting is inherently tragic, but because the grip is. The sentence structure does the work: hard consonants and tight imagery ("clenched", "fist") make the longing feel muscular, defensive. This isn't wistfulness; it's refusal.

Then time enters as the only force strong enough to undo the posture. "Pried every finger open" is quietly brutal, implying the release isn't noble or chosen. It's enforced by weathering, disappointment, age, reality - the slow crowbar of lived experience. The subtext is a confrontation with identity: if you stop gripping the dream, who are you without the tension? Many people don't fear failure as much as they fear the emptiness that follows letting go.

The final image flips surrender into something almost ceremonial: "an open and upraised hand". Upraised can mean greeting, blessing, even testimony - a hand no longer shaped for taking but for receiving, or simply being seen. The line isn't selling passivity; it's arguing for a different kind of agency, one that stops negotiating with the world at knife-point. In a culture that treats relentless striving as virtue, Lee sneaks in a heresy: peace isn't earned by getting what you want, but by unlearning the grip that made wanting feel like survival.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lee, Laurel. (2026, January 16). It was my dream that I had clenched in a fist of discontent and wouldn't release. But time had now pried every finger open. There is peace in an open and upraised hand that isn't grasping for anything. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-was-my-dream-that-i-had-clenched-in-a-fist-of-127284/

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Lee, Laurel. "It was my dream that I had clenched in a fist of discontent and wouldn't release. But time had now pried every finger open. There is peace in an open and upraised hand that isn't grasping for anything." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-was-my-dream-that-i-had-clenched-in-a-fist-of-127284/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It was my dream that I had clenched in a fist of discontent and wouldn't release. But time had now pried every finger open. There is peace in an open and upraised hand that isn't grasping for anything." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-was-my-dream-that-i-had-clenched-in-a-fist-of-127284/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.

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