"It was my dream that I had clenched in a fist of discontent and wouldn't release. But time had now pried every finger open. There is peace in an open and upraised hand that isn't grasping for anything"
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Then time enters as the only force strong enough to undo the posture. "Pried every finger open" is quietly brutal, implying the release isn't noble or chosen. It's enforced by weathering, disappointment, age, reality - the slow crowbar of lived experience. The subtext is a confrontation with identity: if you stop gripping the dream, who are you without the tension? Many people don't fear failure as much as they fear the emptiness that follows letting go.
The final image flips surrender into something almost ceremonial: "an open and upraised hand". Upraised can mean greeting, blessing, even testimony - a hand no longer shaped for taking but for receiving, or simply being seen. The line isn't selling passivity; it's arguing for a different kind of agency, one that stops negotiating with the world at knife-point. In a culture that treats relentless striving as virtue, Lee sneaks in a heresy: peace isn't earned by getting what you want, but by unlearning the grip that made wanting feel like survival.
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| Topic | Letting Go |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lee, Laurel. (2026, January 16). It was my dream that I had clenched in a fist of discontent and wouldn't release. But time had now pried every finger open. There is peace in an open and upraised hand that isn't grasping for anything. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-was-my-dream-that-i-had-clenched-in-a-fist-of-127284/
Chicago Style
Lee, Laurel. "It was my dream that I had clenched in a fist of discontent and wouldn't release. But time had now pried every finger open. There is peace in an open and upraised hand that isn't grasping for anything." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-was-my-dream-that-i-had-clenched-in-a-fist-of-127284/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It was my dream that I had clenched in a fist of discontent and wouldn't release. But time had now pried every finger open. There is peace in an open and upraised hand that isn't grasping for anything." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-was-my-dream-that-i-had-clenched-in-a-fist-of-127284/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.






