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Marriage Quote by Meg Ryan

"It was not a healthy marriage for long time. It was never about another man, it was about what my and Dennis's relationship could not sustain"

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Damage control rarely sounds this weary. Meg Ryan’s line isn’t trying to win an argument so much as end one: she reframes the tabloid-friendly story of betrayal into a slower, less cinematic truth about erosion. “It was not a healthy marriage for long time” has the clipped rhythm of someone correcting a record that’s been flattened into a headline. The slightly off grammar (“for long time”) almost helps; it reads like a person talking, not a publicist polishing.

The key move is the pivot: “It was never about another man.” That phrase doesn’t just deny an affair-as-cause; it demotes the audience’s preferred villain. The subtext is, Stop looking for a single scandal you can consume. Look at the dull, complicated stuff you can’t package. By naming “what my and Dennis’s relationship could not sustain,” she puts the burden on the marriage itself - its capacity, its fault lines - rather than a third party. It’s a bid for adult complexity in a culture that rewards soap-opera simplicity.

Context matters because Ryan’s public image was built on a particular kind of American likability: romantic-comedy warmth, the “good girl” aura that tabloids love to crown and then punish. In that ecosystem, admitting unhappiness is less damning than being cast as the person who “blew it up” for someone else. Her phrasing tries to reclaim agency while also distributing responsibility: not excusing, not confessing, but insisting the marriage had already been failing. The intent is reputational triage, but it’s also a quiet critique of how we demand clean narratives from messy lives.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Ryan, Meg. (2026, January 16). It was not a healthy marriage for long time. It was never about another man, it was about what my and Dennis's relationship could not sustain. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-was-not-a-healthy-marriage-for-long-time-it-110979/

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Ryan, Meg. "It was not a healthy marriage for long time. It was never about another man, it was about what my and Dennis's relationship could not sustain." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-was-not-a-healthy-marriage-for-long-time-it-110979/.

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"It was not a healthy marriage for long time. It was never about another man, it was about what my and Dennis's relationship could not sustain." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-was-not-a-healthy-marriage-for-long-time-it-110979/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Meg Ryan (born November 19, 1961) is a Actress from USA.

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